My previous posts had some critical comments from some of my friends who were really surprised with my thought process. But those were more from the worldly side and analysed by a MBA mind. I would now want to talk straight from the heart.
Firstly, I would like to thank all my friends who have helped me and spent long hours to explain me; so that I get some understanding of this weird and mysterious feeling called LOVE
I have seen many love relations grow, mature and then die out (just like in a hi-tech product life cycle)….I have seen geographical distances develop a drift in the relation….after eight long years people wondering ‘is she the right person’ or ‘I think I am not comfortable’ etc etc…I have seen it all…but along with this I have seen relations that have done wonders to people’s lives. Somehow whenever I talk of love relations, I can’t stop myself from mentioning about two of my very close pals from VJTI. They have seen rough times together and have really grown as a person in eachother’s company. They too like other relations have had their fights but their understanding and faith in eachother have really made their relation what it is today.
What is love…ye pyaar kya hota hai?
Just a four letter word and I really wonder what miracles it can do to
people’s lives.Love definitely is a special feeling which has no definition or expression….it can only be felt….just like one can only feel and know a kick after a smoke or a tequila shot.Some say they can die for love, some say they will die if they don’t get their love….both these categories are useless…why die for love…can’t you love life without a love in life….its not always about gaining.Some mistake physical attraction for love and these are the ones who end up not being satisfied with their love life over a longer period.
Love to me is a very ‘lovely’ feeling for someone whom you find special.…someone you care for….someone you want to standby in all phases of life…someone for whom you can do anything to bring a smile….someone whose one tear drop means like a stroke of a sword…someone whose one sms can make you wait more eagerly than the announcement of your board results ….someone with whom you grow as a person…someone whose one touch is sufficient to free you of all the stress…and much more…but all this - ‘dil se’.
True love is when you dont fall in love...but rise in love.
How does one fall in love….ye pyaar kaise hota hai?
There is no defined way in which love hits one….for some its at first sight…for some it’s a gradual process …. For some it’s the best friend…for some its decided by others (like in arranged marriages)…..it can happen in any manner….the opposite person does not stand with a board in hand…nor do violins play…nor is there a sound of bells ringing…(like in SRK movies)…but yes there is something that happens somewhere within that will make you realize- for some this realization comes in time…for others it may be too late.
Where and When can one fall in love….ye pyaar kahaan aur kab hota hai?
Answer is anytime, anywhere …. May be in school..(surprisingly so many of friends have had ‘crushes’ or love during their schooling)…college…work…marriages…newhere…( I still don’t know how they manage to understand)
Who can fall in love…kisko pyaar ho sakta hai?
Well a bit funny question but anyone who has a heart and has feelings can fall in love… You can end up loving your enemy..or even the person whom you hate the most or fight the most…It can happen to anyone and everyone…Just that some may not express their true feelings.
My final say would be that love is like an opportunity which you must realize 
in time and grab it when it comes..Some lucky ones do get a second chance but why wait for that. But don’t forget love lies in the happiness of your partner and not yours.
All those who read this, shower on me your blessings and best wishes – ‘mera number kab aayega?’
